You said no. Then you explained it. Then you softened it. Then you apologized for it. A licensed therapist on why boundaries don't require a justification, and what happens when you keep giving one anyway.
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Long distance relationships ask something extraordinary of the people in them. Here is how to support your partner through the hard parts without losing yourself in the process.
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She had the career, the routines, the appearance of someone who had it together. She also couldn't get out of bed some mornings. A therapist reflects on what that really means.

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You swore this one was different. And then, somewhere around month three, you realized they weren't. A licensed therapist explains why this keeps happening, and what it actually means.
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You swore this one was different. But somewhere along the way, the same patterns showed up again. You are not cursed. You are caught in a pattern. And patterns can be changed.
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